Divorce Property Sales
Selling a House When the Owners Are Separating
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Both Parties Get the Same Information at the Same Time
This is the whole job. Every update, every offer, every vendor bid goes to both of you together, in writing. Not a call to one and a summary to the other.
It sounds procedural. In practice it is the thing that keeps a sale from falling apart, because most of the conflict in these transactions comes from one party believing the agent is working for the other.
Who I Actually Work For
The property, and both owners equally. Where both of you sign the listing, I represent both of you, and I will say the same thing to each of you whether the other is in the room or not.
I do not give legal advice about the division of property, what either of you is entitled to, or what your decree means. That is your attorney's work, and where a question crosses that line I will tell you rather than guess.
Where One Party Is Not Engaged
One of you wants it sold and the other has stopped responding. That is an attorney problem before it is a listing problem, and listing a house that cannot be signed for wastes everyone's time. I would rather say that early.
Pricing When Neither Side Trusts the Other's Number
One of you thinks it is worth more. The other wants it gone. Both positions are usually about something other than the house.
What settles it is a written valuation with the comparables attached, so the number came from the market rather than from either of you. Where that is not enough, a formal appraisal is worth the cost.
Timing, and What Happens If the Sale Outlasts the Decree
Sales and legal proceedings run on different clocks. Sometimes the house sells first, sometimes the decree comes first, and occasionally an offer arrives on a week when neither of you can think about it.
What matters is that the escrow instructions match what your attorneys have agreed, and that the proceeds are handled the way the order says rather than the way anyone assumed. That gets confirmed before we accept, not after.
Useful to an attorney, a trustee, or a sibling in another state. Send it on or take it with you.





